Michigan Driver's License Restoration - What to do to win your License back After a 2nd or 3rd DUI - Part 2
In part 1 of this article, we began looking at how and why the time between a person's last DUI, assuming that it's a 2nd or 3rd offense, and the time he or she becomes eligible to file a license appeal, is important. Given that your license will be revoked for multiple DUI's, and because the Michigan Secretary of State's Driver Assessment and Appeal Division (DAAD) will be looking at what you did between the date of your revocation and the time you file a license appeal, making good use of that time is important. We identified that the most important part of a Michigan driver's license restoration appeal is proving, by clear and convincing evidence, that your alcohol problem "is likely to remain under control," meaning that you will essentially be required to prove that you're sober.
In this second part, we'll pick up by considering how that is done. The idea here is to use the time from your last DUI productively, so that it will help pave the way for winning your license back, either through a license restoration appeal, or through a clearance of the Michigan hold on your driving record that stands in the way of your getting or renewing a license in another state.
Getting sober, however, is a journey. This is why a very basic piece of beginner's advice in AA is "fake it 'till you make it." That works for AA and even has some role in pre or early recovery, but it takes much more than "faking it" to be successful in a license restoration appeal before the DAAD. This will become clear as we separate these things out a bit. As a Michigan driver's license restoration lawyer actively involved in ongoing, formal education in addiction studies at the post-graduate, University level, I bring both a legal and clinical understanding to this subject. That's not meant to sound fancy; I bring it up because my special background gives me such an advantage in the field of Michigan driver's license restoration cases that I provide a guarantee that if I take your case, I will win it. This first-time win guarantee means that I am every bit as invested as you in winning your case and getting you back on the road the first time.
It would seem that our real goal, after a person's last (meaning 2nd or 3rd, or even 4th or subsequent) DUI is to nudge or urge them from the denial stage into the recognition stage that his or her drinking has become a problem. The difficulty with this is simple: The harder you try, the farther you push someone away. It is an established fact that about the least successful way to get someone to recognize a problem with their drinking is to nag them. Screaming and yelling and intellectual appeals and cost-benefit analysis presented by well meaning family and friends are almost guaranteed to have zero effect. Yet a simple line passed on from therapist to a client of mine says it better than all the slogans of AA or observations in college textbooks: Anything that causes a problem, is a problem.
When you're dealing with your 2nd or 3rd DUI, the only question to ask is, "what's causing this problem?" The answer, at least to anyone whose thinking is not impaired by denial, is obvious. This, of course, really highlights the conundrum and frustration of an alcohol problem, because, for the most part, everyone on the outside can see that a person's troubles all stem from his or her use of alcohol, while the very person affected blames the police, "the system," or some external source of pressure or stress.
Yet there is a role for the "fake it 'till you make it" approach in the whole license appeal process, and in the very way that the AA people mean it. And to be clear, none of this has anything to do with actually going to AA. AA is a great program that helps a lot of people, but in the final tally, 2 out of 3 people who maintain long-term sobriety do so without staying involved in AA. As the previous 2-part article on this blog explains, AA is helpful, but absolutely NOT necessary to win a Michigan driver's license restoration case. More than half of the people for whom I win back a Michigan driver's license, or for whom I win a clearance are not involved in AA by the time I take their case.